Read more about how to find a girlfriend here.

Make it official. When you’re dating a girl you really like, it’s easy to fall into the “let’s solidify things” trap and try to verbally make things official. Women want a challenge just as much as we do, so don’t give too much away, especially in the early stages of dating, otherwise you’ll kill the thrill of the chase and she’ll quickly lose interest.

A lot of guys try to talk themselves up so they’re “worthy” to pick up the girl they’re on a date with. Don’t be like that. It comes from a place of insecurity and girls don’t find that attractive.

Just another day at the park. Before you actively search for a relationship, you must first be comfortable within yourself. Self assurance and self sufficiency are very attractive qualities in a guy and it is important that you don’t come across as desperate for a girlfriend.

Let’s say you land some hot girl by your side and she’s seems really into you – without blowing it entirely with you (you can keep her around to date) but until you’re ready do NOT settle down with her. Make yourself ready and be prepared to do things and say things you’ve never done before. If you’re not seriously committed, not much of this is going to help you get a girlfriend.

Spark love so you aren’t just a guy friend

There’s no reason to worry about that as it’s beyond your control. -Talk to lots of women on a consistent basis.

• Just another day at the park.
• I know, you may be thinking, but why do I have to check if I’m ready?
• Now that she’s your girlfriend, it will probably come time to have deeper, more intimate conversations.
• As long as you’re not sleeping with them all or leading someone on, then it’s completely legitimate to have a few girls ‘on the roster’, so to speak.

Positioning is crucial, but once you have positioned yourself successfully in a new environment, you have to start making yourself an important prospect to talk to. The mission doesn’t stop once you’ve entered the room. People often wonder how to get to this stage. They have what I call a “town mindset” – that sense of comfort only a big fish in a little pond can feel.

Everyone likes having someone to talk to, especially women. I cannot recall all the times when I would tell a story to my boyfriend and then he would just reply with “yeah, yeah,” as he’s texting. Don’t be that guy. That guy will not have a girlfriend at the end of the day.

On the date start by complimenting her. Women can spend hours choosing a dress, putting on make up and doing their hair for the first date. She’s done this all for you don’t forget to show your appreciation with an honest compliment. Stop trying to get a girlfriend.

Ask an ice-breaking question. Asking a casual question is a good way to start conversation with someone.

The classic techniques of extended eye contact, smiling and compliments work well. Make it clear you’re interested as more than a friend but don’t come on too strong otherwise she won’t think you’re looking for an actual relationship. Girls love confident men. Fact. Over-thinking everything and being nervous or afraid is not going to make a girl find you attractive.

People say a lot of stuff about personality, but just about every woman I’ve known puts up with just about anything from an attractive man who has money. You really get it when you’re at a bar and see a famous guy walk in the room and all the women stare at him like men stare at a hot girl. Sounds like you’re trying for the wrong type of woman, or more accurately I suspect, girl. That may be the problem too, if you’re not genuinely interested in your “interests” then you’re wasting your time. You gotta be the most interesting version of you or in essence it’s a lie.